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After author's clarification, I'm adding the answers to the "where are you from" question.

Here are some answers I use to give to the "where are you from?" (I somewhat tested most of them):

Workable

  • All over
  • I moved around
  • From different places
  • I'm a universal soul/world citizen/global citizen/citizen of the world (sometimes becomes a mocking topic)
  • I came from [name the last country visited] (sometimes becomes a mocking topic)
  • I am from [name the last country visited] (sometimes becomes a mocking topic)
  • I am living/live in [country]
  • I have no simple answers to short questions
  • I'm multi-local
  • I don't consider myself a part of any particular country

Funny

  • I'm not (and then start asking personal questions or "where are YOU from?", "oh, from the US, I like McDonald's")
  • Well, if you can't tell does it matter?
  • I'm am a mongrel/monggy
  • Uh, you know, here... There... You know how it is..!
  • I wear many hats
  • Krakozhia / Mordor / Tatooine / etc
  • Taiga / Europe / Asia etc

Rude

  • That depends
  • From my mom/a woman/womb
  • It's insignificant/inconsequential/unimportant
  • I don't care / It doesn't matter (to me)
  • My origin is unimportant to me
  • Does it matter?
  • Depends on what do you mean and why do you want to know
  • I'm not into labels
  • Why's this important right now?
  • Well, thank you (and then start asking personal questions i.e. "are you married?", "why?", "when are you going to get married?")
  • How much time do you have?

Pretentious

  • Perception stains reality
  • I possess no personal designation/categorisation
  • I have no place of personal association

Suspiciously weird

  • I cannot answer this question
  • It's not my favourite topic
  • This question makes me feel uncomfortable

Not helpful

  • Lived in [name the countries you lived in]
  • Was born in [country] (but lived in [countries])

Untested

  • I'm anational/nationless (derived from your topic in English Stack Exchange)
  • I'm cosmopolite/cosmopolitan
  • I'm transcultural/intercultural
  • I'm extraneous
  • Who I am is completely independent from my heritage
  • I don't deem myself coming from a particular place
  • My home is where I am (stand)
  • My home is where I'm happy
  • I don't belong
  • I can't name any particular place
After author's clarification, I'm adding the answers to the "where are you from" question.

Here are some answers I use to give to the "where are you from?" (I somewhat tested most of them):

Workable

  • All over
  • I moved around
  • From different places
  • I'm a universal soul/world citizen/global citizen/citizen of the world (sometimes becomes a mocking topic)
  • I came from [name the last country visited] (sometimes becomes a mocking topic)
  • I am from [name the last country visited] (sometimes becomes a mocking topic)
  • I am living/live in [country]
  • I have no simple answers to short questions
  • I'm multi-local
  • I don't consider myself a part of any particular country

Funny

  • I'm not (and then start asking personal questions or "where are YOU from?", "oh, from the US, I like McDonald's")
  • Well, if you can't tell does it matter?
  • I'm am a mongrel/monggy
  • Uh, you know, here... There... You know how it is..!
  • I wear many hats
  • Krakozhia / Mordor / Tatooine / etc
  • Taiga / Europe / Asia etc

Rude

  • That depends
  • From my mom/a woman/womb
  • It's insignificant/inconsequential/unimportant
  • I don't care / It doesn't matter (to me)
  • My origin is unimportant to me
  • Does it matter?
  • Depends on what do you mean and why do you want to know
  • I'm not into labels
  • Why's this important right now?
  • Well, thank you (and then start asking personal questions i.e. "are you married?", "why?", "when are you going to get married?")
  • How much time do you have?

Pretentious

  • Perception stains reality
  • I possess no personal designation/categorisation
  • I have no place of personal association

Suspiciously weird

  • I cannot answer this question
  • It's not my favourite topic
  • This question makes me feel uncomfortable

Not helpful

  • Lived in [name the countries you lived in]
  • Was born in [country] (but lived in [countries])

Untested

  • I'm anational/nationless (derived from your topic in English Stack Exchange)
  • I'm cosmopolite/cosmopolitan
  • I'm transcultural/intercultural
  • I'm extraneous
  • Who I am is completely independent from my heritage
  • I don't deem myself coming from a particular place
  • My home is where I am (stand)
  • My home is where I'm happy
  • I don't belong
  • I can't name any particular place
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Nergüi
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I'm happy to find people with a similar problem. My story is very alike as well. I've been struggling with this for quite a while. I look for an answer, do research, ask on the internet, monitor any similar topic on the web all the time.

I used these options to call myself:

  • Global citizen / World citizen / Citizen of the world
  • Independent from my heritage
  • Multi-local
  • Transcultural / Intercultural
  • Universal soul
  • Extraneous

Some friends kindly called me:

  • Cosmopolitan
  • Natural born explorer
  • Fair human being
  • Open-minded
  • International
  • Free thinker

People in my "home" country called me (derogatory):

  • Outcast
  • "Special"
  • Renegade
  • Dissident
  • Turncoat
  • Social pariah
  • Cast-away
  • Black sheep
  • Alien

People outside my "home" country called me (derogatory):

But to me the most difficult question is "where are you from?" and all the follow up after it. And I still haven't found how to deal with it. Even sometimes I manage to deal with it, later on it still pops up, particularly in every work place.

I hope we can somehow connect to share our experiences.