It doesn’t look like any Japanese domestic bank participates in the American banking system’s electronic draft system that would give them the ABA bank code number you need for a direct deposit from with the USA. Instead, Japanese banks all use the international SWIFT codes which are not the same system with ABA.
(I had the opposite problem of trying to get funds from japan and they needed a bank with swift and many banks in the USA only have ABA)
At best you could set up a MUFG Union Bank NA account, but that’s an American bank and you don’t want to do that. Same goes for CitiBank.
I’m not sure why you’re trying to avoid setting up an American bank account. You have an American social security number so it should be easy to set up an account with an online bank that’ll issue you a debit card you can use to withdraw the funds in Japanese yen in Japan.